Preparation Before Putting on Your Penis Cages
When you’re getting ready to put on a penis cage, there are some easy steps you can take to make the process a little easier.
The most important thing to do before putting on a cage is to give everything a good clean. Paying attention to chastity cage safety is also paramount. The cage might not be coming off for quite a while, so you’re going to want to make sure your penis is ready to go.
Choosing the perfect cock cage is also an essential consideration. You have to make sure that you're using the cage that will suit your needs and preferences.
Another note is that in the process of putting a cage on, it’s very common for the man to get an erection. Once the penis is hard, it’s going to be more difficult to get the cage on, if you can manage it at all.
An easy way to deal with this is keeping a few cubes of ice handy. The cold will quickly get help the penis calm down and once it’s flaccid again you can continue putting on the cage.
Lubrication
Using almost any kind of sexual device is a bit easier with some lubrication, and cock cages are no different. While the main enclosure of the cage will quite easily fit over the flaccid penis as it should be slightly larger, the rings can be a bit more difficult.
Having a bottle of lube handy is always good while you’re putting a cage on. If you have difficulty getting the ring over the balls, simply add a little lube and try again. This time it should just gently slide over.
How to Put on a Cock Cage
There are two main parts to putting on a cock cage. The first is putting on the ring. To do this you should first put each testicle through one at a time. Then bend the penis downwards and slide it in aswell.
Once you’ve done this, you can place the enclosure of the cage over the penis and attach it to the ring.
Some cages don’t come in two completely separate parts, but instead have a hinge between the ring and the enclosure. If this is the case, you should insert the testicles the same way, then bend the penis upwards so the enclosure can hinge over it and into place (or downwards, it depends where the hinge is).
Can a Cock Cage Fit Under Your Clothes?
For someone who is going to be wearing their cock cage permanently, or even just when out and about, having something that sits under your clothing without drawing too much attention is more ideal. Some cage are so bulky and have extra parts, that they will show up through almost any clothing.
In general you will have an easier time concealing a simpler cage, and where possible a smaller size. It also helps to wear baggier and looser clothing so there is more space for the cage.
Can You Wear a Cock Cage in Public?
Wearing a cock cage in public is something many men will try if they become interested in chastity. In some cases it’s due to being permanently locked up. Other times their Mistress may require them to wear the cage when she isn’t there.
Whatever the case, there is nothing wrong with wearing a cage in public! Generally you will want to be a bit more discreet, as some cages will draw a lot of attention to your pelvic area. Smaller, simpler cages tend to be the easiest to conceal, and ones that are easy to put on and remove are recommended. If there is an emergency in a public setting, you’ll prefer to be able to remove the cage quickly.
Bonus tip: in addition to discreetly wearing cages, those in BDSM relationships often wear other accessories to symbolize their power exchange. While a dog collar for men can be innocently stylish and just fashionable, it can also act as a symbol of surrender and loyalty which pleases the dominant. But you may try a more extreme route: wear a bdsm shock collar and get teased and controlled in public—this will build up tension and anticipation for a more intense session in the bedroom later. (Some submissives are even brave enough to wear a human muzzle, proudly displaying their emasculation, but wearing people muzzles is obviously not for everyone.)
What to Expect While Wearing a Cock Cage
The first thing you’re going to notice after putting on a cock cage is that it’s there. This may sound silly, but it’s going to be very obvious for a while before you get used to having it there.
In particular, you’re going to notice the extra weight and bulk on your penis. You might find that it pulls the penis downwards quite a lot, which can be very irritating. The best way to deal with this is to wear tighter underwear, so the cage and penis are kept close to the body, and some of the weight is supported by the fabric.
Another potential issue is chafing and skin irritation. The ring of the cage will naturally move around while you wear it, rubbing against the skin, and some people may experience rashes or rough areas of skin. This can be avoided by applying some lube around the ring at regular intervals, giving it the ability to move more freely without friction against your skin.
If you do find that your ring is causing irritation, it’s a good idea to use some moisturizing cream to help treat the area.
Once you get past the initial hurdles though, men can have all kinds of different experiences. Some might find it arousing to constantly have the cage there, reminding them of what they can’t have. Others may get very frustrated, as the cage will be constantly touching your penis which causes arousal. Naturally you can’t satisfy this arousal, so it can be difficult to stop yourself becoming frustrated.
If you decided to wear a cock cage for its benefits, then you might need to wait for a few days to a couple of weeks before you can see improvements.
Can You Have Sex While Wearing a Cock Cage?
As cock cages are penis shaped, it’s not unusual to think of them as a kind of penis enlarger. While you’re wearing them, your overall package will be slightly larger.
Naturally then, some people may wonder whether you can have sex while wearing them.
We don’t advise trying this for a number of reasons.
Firstly, the cage will prevent the man getting an erection, and being turned on during sex is natural. A cycle can form where the man is turned on, gets an erection, the cage prevents it, and repeats
This can be quite painful, not to mention extremely frustrating for the man wearing the cage.
Additionally, during sex there is a lot of friction. The additional weight of the cage can pull and stretch the penis in painful ways, as the penis cannot break free.
On top of this, there is a great risk of skin catching and becoming painful and irritated. Overall, it’s best to take the cage off if you’re planning on having sex.
Cock cages don’t need to be completely excluded from the love-making process though. Many couples like to leave the man caged until he has thoroughly seen to his partner. Then, and only then, will he be allowed to remove the cage and enjoy the pleasure he desires. But why not explore other orgasms that chastity offers?
You may also incorporate more bdsm accessories in your sessions to spice up the unlocking process. Imagine getting tied in bondage bed straps and leather bondage cuffs as your partner tease and nibble your vulnerable body. Add a bdsm spreader bar into the mix to escalate the thrills of restraint. The more restrained you are, the more sensitive you become, and your patience and perseverance will be rewarded with a more explosive orgasm.
Long-Term Cock Cage Wear
If you’re going to be wearing your cock cage for an extended period of time, there are a few extra things to think about.
One common thing that might happen is chafing. As you move around, parts of the cage will rub against your skin, which can lead to some irritation.
It’s important to regularly inspect both the cage and the penis to make sure there are no problems, and if you do find irritated skin, be sure to moisturize it so it can heal up. You could also regularly put lube on the areas where the cage rubs.
You should also pay close attention to the weight of your cage. Wearing it while out and about will mean that a lot of weight will be put in specific places the cage touches your skin. If your cage is too heavy, it could cause the skin to stretch, or cause some pain in those areas.
It’s usually better to use something lightweight as your outdoor/long-term cage, and save the heavier cages for home use.
Finally, you should always make sure to take the cage off and thoroughly clean both it and your penis every 2 weeks at most.
How to Take off a Cock Cage
Taking off a cock cage is relatively simple. Just do the same as putting it on, but in reverse!
A man’s penis may be a little delicate if he’s been wearing a cage for a long time though, so be gentle, and pay close attention to areas where the cage has been in contact with his skin.
Cleaning Cock Cages
Almost all cages are able to be cleaned with warm soapy water. Be sure to use a cloth and get into all the small crevasses, as these are the places bacteria are most likely to build up.
Some cages are able to be boiled, particularly metal ones and some silicone ones too. This is great as you can submerge the cage in boiling water, and be completely sure that all bacteria has been killed. You should check the instructions that came with your cage to make sure it is suitable for boiling.
Some people like to use the dishwasher to clean their cock cages and other sex toys. Be sure to remove all smaller parts if you do this, because they may get lost. Again you should check any instructions that came with your cage before doing this.
However you end up cleaning your cock cages it’s important to make sure they are fully dry before putting them away. If they are damp, mould can build up during storage, and you’ll have to clean them all over again!
Storing Cock Cages
All cock cages should be stored in a cool dry place. Ideally, each should be in it’s own container or plastic bag, as this reduces the risk of cross contamination. You should also try to put them somewhere they are unlikely to be damaged, such as in a plastic box.
