Strap Ons


Introduction to Strapons

Most of us already know what strapons are, but you curious prudes who do not… Oh, this is the right place for you!

This is another type of sex toy that isn’t limited by gender or sexuality. Strapons are multifunctional too, as they have more than one use. Whatever you use them for, they’re here to bring fun into your sex life —the kind of fun your partner will thank you for.

What Are Strapons?

We’re sure you’ve seen strapon-using lesbians in some porn more than once in your life. Now we’re here to teach you their ways, so settle down, class — it’s time for strapons 101.

A strapon is, well, a harness with a dildo attached to it. It’s that simple. It’s a common misconception that their only purpose is lesbian sex. Although, to be fair, when it comes to lesbian sex toys, it is definitely among the most popular ones. But our queer sisters aren’t the only ones using them.

Strapon dildos are also used for pegging. What is pegging, you ask? Pegging is when roles reverse for straight couples, and men find themselves on the receiving end. To put it bluntly: it’s women fucking men. Strapon sex is a lot of fun and can add that extra something you’ve been searching for.

Using a strapon, like anything, requires a little research beforehand, though. And you’ve come to the right place.

What Types of Strapons Are There?

So let’s talk about types of strapon. It might feel overwhelming because there are so many shapes and sizes but don’t worry. We’re here to unpack it all.

Two main types of strapons are those with a harness and those without. Because strapons come in two parts (harness and dildo), it’s essential to pay attention to both. There are many designs of strapon dildos too. They can be realistic or very abstract, and they can come in different shapes. Choose according to what your partner likes. Or what you might like as well, in case you decide to switch.

It’s important to state that you should never use sex toys whose purpose isn’t to fit in a harness like, for example, butt plugs. They might be able to fit in there, but they’re not meant for the good old in-and-out motions. Stick to the basics. This type of experimenting can end badly if you’re not careful.

Harness

Strapon harnesses are there to keep your dildo safely in place. You don’t want that thing falling off, especially since you’ll be in motion.

There are, of course, different types of harnesses. Some even include a vibrator for the wearer, which is a neat little addition. Some will fit low on the body and make the wearer feel a nice pressure on the clit while thrusting. So you see, using a strapon isn’t a one-way street.

Since there are different types, you won’t know which one you like until you try them. Each of them fits differently and is made of different materials. So choosing according to what’s best for you is imperative. Some sex toy companies have strapon sets that come with both a harness and a dildo. However, maybe it’s best to mix and match. But first, always make sure your dildo fits.

No Harness

So, how can there be strapons with no harness? Knowing what a typical one looks like, there has to be some kind of a mistake. Well, not quite.

A strapon harness isn’t always required. These straps are basically like a double dildo. One side goes into you, and the other goes into your partner. Some say this type of strap makes the whole experience more intimate. We find that this type can be a typical lesbian strapon since there are no gay sex positions that allow for the use of this type of strap on. Or maybe there are if you’re brave enough to experiment.

Whatever your strap on of choice is, you are going to have fun with them. We invite you to find new strapon sex positions through exploring. You never know what you can stumble upon and change your sex life for good. It’s worth a try.

Types of Harness

When it comes to types of strapon harness, there are many options. There are G-strings, jockstraps, corsets, and underwear. What’s different about them is in how they fit the body.

G-strings are also known as two-straps. The name says it all. One strap goes around your waist and another between your thighs. You know, like a typical G-string. Or to explain it better, just imagine a thong. But then you can attach a dildo to it.

Jockstraps go around the thighs and seem to be quite popular while corset has a little corset on your booty for a more sexy look and better support.

Underwear can go undetected beneath regular clothes. However, they’re not the best for penetrative sex because they can’t support heavier toys, so do keep that in mind.

What matters most is what makes you feel the most comfortable wearing. The rest is magic.

Making Sure Your Strapon Fits the Harness

This part is crucial, and you should always have it in mind. Since you (or your partner) will engage in a lot of movement, your dildo must stay put when you wear a strap on.

That’s why it might be best if you buy strapon sets. They come with a dildo that’s perfectly suited for the harness of your choice. In case you want to mix and match, try to buy them both at the same time. That way, you can ensure that the dildo fits. Imagine your dildo just falling off in the middle of intercourse. Not sexy!

Strap on sex is fun. But for it to stay fun, it needs to be safe first. If you’re going for anal penetration with your strap — and you should for that sweet, sweet prostate stimulation — always use lots of lube. General sex toy rules apply to strapons too. It’s no more complicated than women using dildos so strap in and enjoy.

Summary

Now that unpacking is complete, it’s safe to say strapons are lots of fun. You have many options to choose from, and we can guarantee satisfaction.

These types of toys are good to explore your sexuality with, and they are basically a two for one scenario because you can use your strap dildo as a regular dildo too. Or your underwear harness as regular underwear for that matter. And did we mention they can help couples who have to deal with erectile dysfunction? So not only are strapons fun, they are quite practical too. Would you not agree?

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