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A P-Spot orgasm is something that only a man will be able to experience. Many men don’t even know they exist though, let alone how to achieve one!
Prostate orgasms can be some of the most intense and enjoyable experiences of a man’s life though, so it’s well worth the effort! In this article, we’ll take you through the ins and outs of this unique sexual experience.
What is a Prostate Orgasm?
As the name might suggest, a prostate orgasm is one produced entirely by the prostate gland. This little gem is hidden deep within a man’s body, and is quite difficult to stimulate during regular sex.
Perhaps the most important thing about prostate orgasms though, is that you don’t need to touch your penis at all! That’s right, these mind-blowing orgasms can be achieved solely by stimulating the prostate gland.
What Do Prostate Orgasms Feel Like?
Of course, the first thing any man will be wondering is what these orgasms feel like. After all, normal orgasms already feel great, so why should you go to the extra effort to try and have a prostate orgasm?
Well, the simple answer is that prostate orgasms are way better than standard orgasms.
A prostate orgasm will usually start with pleasurable feelings in your pelvic region. This can feel like tingling, numbness, or even a pulsing sensation. If you’re able to let go and lose yourself in these feelings, they can start to expand throughout the rest of your body.
Eventually the feelings will become so intense and overwhelming that they can completely take over. Rather than simply having an orgasm, you are totally taken over by it. All you can do is sit back and enjoy the ride!
Another important difference to standard orgasms, is that prostate orgasms can last much longer. Some men report having orgasms that last several minutes!
There’s a lot in common between the way women experience orgasm, and the way men experience prostate orgasm. This may be in part due to the theories that the prostate gland is actually a man’s g-spot, and stimulating it can result in the same experience a woman has when her g-spot is stimulated.
After feeling such intense pleasure throughout the entire body, most men will feel completely exhausted, but incredibly relaxed. It can take several minutes to a few hours to recover, and get rid of the wobbly leg feeling that you’re bound to have when you stand up!
Multiple Orgasms For Men!
Another fantastic benefit to prostate orgasms, is that they can allow men to experience multiple orgasms just like women!
When they have an orgasm, men usually enter what is known as the refractory period. This is a period of time where they will be unable to reach orgasm again, and for many men even be unable to get an erection again.
How long the refractory period lasts will vary from man to man, with some being ready to go again after a few minutes, while others need several hours.
The great thing about prostate orgasms though, is that they don’t trigger the refractory period! This means that as soon as one orgasm is finished, you can move straight onto the next one.
Some men experienced with prostate orgasms even claim they can have forty orgasms in the space of a couple of hours!
How to Have a Prostate Orgasm (Or Several!)
Before we get too ahead of ourselves, we need to make it clear that reaching orgasm through prostate stimulation is very difficult. Some men try for years before they finally manage to do it.
In part, this is due to the unfortunate location of the prostate gland. You can find it between the inner end of the penis, and the bladder. This means there’s no good way to directly stimulate it. The easiest way to stimulate your prostate is through the anus.
We’ve already come up against our first problem. Many men won’t want to put fingers or sex toys in their butts. There can be all kinds of reasons for this, but often it’s because we’re overwhelmingly programmed to think that this is something only gay people do.
This couldn’t be further from the truth. We should all feel comfortable exploring our own bodies, and overcoming this barrier is the first step to achieving a prostate orgasm.
When it comes to actually stimulating the prostate, there’s no “best” or “right” way to do it. We’re all different, and we all enjoy different things. You’ll need to practise and experiment to see what works and what doesn’t work for you. If you’re looking for more help stimulating your prostate, head over to our guide to learn more.
As you stimulate your prostate, you’ll often notice that it feels like you need to pee. This is completely normal, as the prostate begins to push fluid out of your body that would normally be a part of your semen. This is often referred to as pre-cum.
It’s important to let go, and allow this pre-cum to leak out of your penis if you want to reach orgasm. Holding it in will prevent you from fully relaxing and letting go, which in turn will usually prevent any orgasms.
Similarly, you begin to feel the pleasurable feelings emanating from the prostate itself, many people find it difficult to simply enjoy them. This may be because they aren’t used to having something in their anus, so find it difficult to relax. Or maybe they just aren’t used to these feelings so it all seems a little strange.
Again, letting go is the only answer. Only by accepting the feelings and focusing on them, rather than anything else, will you be able to finally reach orgasm.
Reaching Orgasm With a Prostate Massager
Many men who do enjoy prostate stimulation will find that using their fingers can quickly become tiring, so they need to stop before they can push themselves over the edge. A common solution is to turn to prostate massagers.
These devices are similar to butt plugs, but feature a slight curve which lets them apply pressure to the prostate gland. By using one of these, you can stimulate your prostate without exhausting your hands, and simply sit back and enjoy the sensations.
Another option is a vibrating prostate massager, which can stimulate the gland with no input from you at all! Simply put it in, turn it on, and let it blow your mind.
Vibrating massagers might sound like the best option, but for many men they can actually prevent them from reaching orgasm. Often the vibrations are too intense, and the sensitive prostate gland is quickly numbed by them. While it can still feel great, and make your normal orgasms much more intense, the vibrations end up being a barrier to reaching prostate orgasm.
Many men report much better success with non-vibrating models. While wearing them, you can perform pelvic floor exercises, which are simple clenching motions using the muscles around the pelvic region. Each exercise will move the massager inside your body, gently rubbing against the prostate.
Before long, you might find these contractions happening automatically, as you become more and more aroused. This is often the prelude to a prostate orgasm, and you should keep pushing through!