The Most Exciting Sex Toys for Men

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How lucky are we to live in the age of sex positivity?! Now, more than ever before, we are encouraged to explore, experiment, and enjoy the magic of love-making. From roleplay to erotic tools for men, women, and couples, there are various ways to increase the excitement of our sex lives without fear of stigma or repercussions.

Yes, conversations are more open, yet there seems to be a reluctance in men to fully engage in all the perks that this new era of freedom offers. Although it sounds surprising, ladies are much more inclined to try out different aids that can spice up the time in the bedroom.

Several reasons come to mind, but the first one is the saddening fact that men are simply more conservative. This reluctance probably comes from the fear of inadequacy. Some of us may feel that our god-given tools are suddenly insufficient, so the sex toys can seem like competition.

Well, that can’t be further from the truth. Just because we have legs does not mean that we should not drive, right? The truth is that male sex toys are fantastic, and if we decide to avoid them, we deprive ourselves of some tremendous experiences. When there are so many options for pleasure, it would be a shame to miss out.

Maybe we need some demystifying to understand how it all works, so let’s check out the most exciting toys on the market. By the end of this article, we’re sure you’ll find the one with your name on it!

Men Only

Though we shouldn’t tire ourselves with labels, some sex toys are designed strictly for men. That does not imply that women can’t find creative ways to use them. It just means that the manufacturers had male body in mind while making them.

Prostate Massagers

Honestly, the prostate is essential for mind-blowing orgasms in men. There is a reason they call it the male G-spot. If you haven’t tried out prostate play, you are missing out on a lot of pleasure.

We all know that this almond-shaped gland can cause problems, but we may be unaware that it can make our lives so much better as well.

While your partner can take you to heaven with a prostate massage, there is no reason you can’t treat yourself to the same when there is no one around. Since masturbating and massaging at the same time can be tricky, vibrating prostate massagers are there to provide maximum pleasure.

These gadgets are entirely safe and designed for full comfort. Also, they allow you to enjoy on your own, or while having intercourse. One thing is certain — they take your orgasms to the next level.

Cock Rings

This toy is quite common and makes your erections longer and harder. Also, it increases the intensity of your ejaculation. Another important aspect is the visual impression. Your penis will appear bigger, thicker, and powerful.

Essentially, most cock rings are placed around the bottom of the penis and scrotum while the organ is flaccid. Once it gets hard, the ring prevents the blood flow from returning to the body, thus, helping prolong your erection. However, there are different types of rings that you can wear on other parts of the penis, so you can customize the experience, so to speak.

Cock rings come in different sizes and materials, so you may have to try out a couple of models to find the one that suits you best. Also, you can use different rings in different situations, depending on your partner and mood.

Rubber rings are suitable for beginners, while leather variants allow you to adjust the firmness of the grip. Metal rings are the most extreme option, so leave those for special occasions.

Penis Pumps

This aid has been around for a long time. Although it is questionable if it can enlarge the penis long-term, it does wonders for instant results and does wonders in preparing your organ for action.

Some guys enjoy the feeling of pumping itself and use these devices as solo sex toys. The gadget consists of a tube in which you put your penis and a pump that suctions the air out of the tube, allowing for your penis to expand.

As we said, pumps are usually advertised as a tool for penis enlargement, but in reality, they can be used in various ways. Some caution is necessary, though, as overuse or misuse can cause injuries.

However, as long as you follow the instructions, you should not have any issues. Who knows — you may even grow an inch!

Masturbation Sleeves (Pocket Pussies)

To be honest, masturbation is as important as intercourse. Yes, most people say that they only masturbate when there are no other options, but a solo sex session can be an adventure in itself.

Masturbation sleeves make the experience new and familiar at the same time. The interior of the sleeve has a specific texture that gives the word “self-pleasure” a whole new meaning.

Conveniently, they are small, so you can take them anywhere. Also, the manufacturers use real women as models to make the feeling as authentic as possible. No wonder they call them pocket pussies!

Penis Plugs

Ok, this toy is not for the faint-hearted, but it offers an unforgettable experience. Penis plugs are rods that you (or someone else) places in your urethra to expand it. To be honest, this does sound scary, but the ones that gave it a go say that it is ecstatic.

You can use the plug for arousal or to intensify an orgasm, and some users describe the feeling as “masturbating from the inside.” The practice originates from ancient China. Although it started as a medical procedure, the recipients began using it for more interesting purposes.

However, that is not something you should take lightly, as the rod has to be sterile, and the technique is a bit touchy. On the other hand, if it sounds appealing, most sex shops sell urethra kits — just make sure you follow the instructions religiously!

Tenga Eggs

Unsurprisingly, many masturbation toys come from Japan, and Tenga egg is the weirdest. First of all, it does not look like a sex toy at all, but rather like something you would buy for your kids. Second, it’s a disposable masturbator, so you can somehow picture it as a part of the first-class guest kit on a really long flight.

Anyway, it is not really an egg but a masturbation sleeve that you cover your penis with and use up-and-down or twisting movements to jerk off. The lube is part of the kit, so you don’t have to worry about that.

These male masturbators come in different textures and are fit for all sizes because they are incredibly stretchy. Though it is not something you would use daily, Tenga egg can be amusing occasionally.

Take a Walk on the Wild Side

Now, we are entering a new territory, as we are about to explore the toys that are traditionally considered to be more for the ladies. Don’t cringe! Pleasure knows no gender, so let’s start with the most popular of toys — the vibrator.


Now, we are entering a new territory, as we are about to explore the toys that are traditionally considered to be more for the ladies. Don’t cringe! Pleasure knows no gender, so let’s start with the most popular of toys — the vibrator.

More or less, we all know how these work. What may be new to us is that men can use vibrators as well and have a really good time. You don’t have to penetrate yourself to benefit from the toy, although, in the end, you will probably feel like it. You can simply use it on your thighs, nipples, on the shaft of the penis or perineum.

The speed is adjustable, so you can turn it up or down, depending on the part of the body you are stimulating. Always keep in mind to take it slowly, relax, and find the spot and the speed that works for you.


Well, dildos are great fun. Yet again, many guys will not feel comfortable around them. That is a shame because using a dildo can be exciting for both couples and solo action.

There are so many options for dildos that it would be a shame not to spice up your sex life with this fantastic toy. You can use it on your partner, especially if both of you are interested in double penetration.

Some men would like to experience how it feels to be a recipient of anal sex, so this gadget is excellent to explore if and how anal stimulation works for them.

However, what’s important is always to use a good water based lube and to pick the right size of the dildo. Also, these toys have to be used diligently and properly cleaned and stored to avoid any infections or injuries.

Butt Plugs

Once you try the butt plug, you will get a whole new perspective on how your body works. Although considered to be for women, men can get even more out of it. Butt plugs are not too invasive, so men get accustomed to them quickly.

They provide mild anal stimulation that can make your erection harder and orgasm more intense. Whether you decide to use this toy during sex or masturbation, the feeling will be fantastic.

There are various shapes and sizes, so you can experiment until you find the right one. Again, it’s essential to clean the toy before and after use, so you don’t have to fear infections.


If you are into roleplay, strapons are the best sex toy for you. Unfortunately, most men fail to realize that their anus can be a source of immense pleasure. As we are so used to being the dominant partner in sex, we tend to miss out on the opportunity to let ourselves go and find out how it feels to be on the other side.

Strapons can open a whole new world and allow us to enjoy sex from a different perspective. It will take some time to get the hang of it, but once we do, we are in for a treat. It is vital to have a partner that we can trust and to choose the right size of the strapon dildo.

Don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t feel good in the beginning — both of you will need some time to master the technique. Also, lubricants are essential, so make sure you buy a good one.

Aside from the previously mentioned, when worn by a male, the strapon can be used for double penetration. That will also require some practice, but the experience can be highly rewarding for the female partner.

More Toys for Boys

Whatever your preference might be, there is a toy that can help you enjoy it even more. Don’t hesitate to visit your local sex shop or a website that sells these wonderful aids. The list of products is endless, and so is the fun.

Among our favorite gadgets are the rimming simulator, blowjob stroker, head stimulator, and the penis extension. Each of them helps you reach new heights during sex or masturbation. And they are all safe and easy to use.

Above all, people who use sex toys tend to be more confident, open-minded, and relaxed. If your sex life is good, your outlook on the world improves a great deal. Probably because there is no stress that a good orgasm cannot annihilate.

Happy End

There is nothing worse than depriving yourself of pleasure because you feel shame or fear. All of us should shed our insecurities and simply go with the flow. By doing so, we’d allow ourselves and our partners to enjoy ourselves fully and make the most out of our relationships.

Sex toys know no gender, age, race, or sexual orientation. They make our lives fun, and that’s why we love them. So don’t be timid! Find the ones that will make your heart beat faster and your penis harder!

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