Sex Positions and Tips for Double Dildos

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“Oh, ye of little faith!” shouted the man as he was clearing his desk. He just got fired after another unsuccessful meeting with the board of directors after another pitched idea the men in expensive suits disliked. As he walked out of his office, he glanced over the meeting room, remembering how he stood in front of the whiteboard. It was but a five minutes ago that he was inside, saying, “Alright, hear me out this time. A Chinese finger trap, but with fake dicks!”

At least that is how we like to imagine the idea for a double-headed dildo came to life. Using double dildos can really spice up your sex life, regardless of your being a couple using double dildos or a single guy/girl. It’s great fun for all — lesbians using double dildo, gays, straights, singles. But how to use a dildo with two ends? It’s like having CatDog, right? Well, we’re here to help you out.

Using Double Dildos

Double dildos offer so much more as a sex toy than a single-headed one. There are a lot of variations in both positions, as well as when it comes to the customization of the toy. You can go for a smaller one if you’re new to the game (especially if you’re only starting your anal play journey), but you can also find some magnum two-headed Hydras that reach up to 25 inches! Even if you’re a newbie, you should consider a double dong bigger than your regular dildo, as you want it to be able to reach both destinations. You can also go from a realistic veiny soldier to just a smooth phallic silicone toy.

The best thing about this penetration dildo is that it’s highly applicable. For instance, a woman using a dildo can get herself in a double penetration position; in that case, she’d want a bendy one that would go into both spots. One would stimulate her vaginally, while the other end could be used as a butt plug. Guys, on the other hand, could also do a double anal penetration technique consisting of hiding both ends inside their anus. We like to call that Schindler’s Fist.

When we think about the double dong, most people immediately think about a lesbian double-ended dildo, where two girls go at it like a jackhammer looking into its reflection in a puddle. But that’s not all. Straight couples who like to explore are also welcome! That way, you can have the guy do anal sex while the female partner pushes the dildo into her vagi-gi.

Gay couples could join in on the fun, but as you know, double the ani, double the lube. Most importantly, double the dildo orgasms as well!


If you’ve used a regular dildo before, you’ll already know how to use this one. Most importantly, don’t forget to lube up (especially on the head that goes into a butt), as lube is an essential mediator between the toy and your orgasm. Without it, there’s too much pain, and you won’t be able to penetrate smoothly. Just remember — if your toy is out of silicone, use water-based lube, as a silicone-based one will ruin your handyman.

After that, it’s easy; just relax and do it at your own pace. Push it in as much as you feel comfortable doing and go at a speed you’re okay with. Don’t forget; this is for pleasure; it’s not a race for bragging rights.

Sex Positions

When it comes to double dildo positions, you can add some variation to it, but essentially, there are two main ones you can use. If you’re on your own, you can lie on your back and place a pillow or two under your hips. Put one end in slowly, bend it, and then insert the other. Use the bent middle as the part you control with your hands. If your dildo is too soft, it might be tough to get it to do exactly what you want. So to counter that, you can do it in a squat position. Bend the dildo into a “U” shape, with both ends facing up. Squat above it and put both sides in the desired destinations, and now you can ride it while feeling the glory of DP.

As for non-solo nights, all couple variations can have their fun, be it straight, gay, or lesbian. The only difference is whether one end will go into a vagina or if it’ll go a bit more down south. For example, both partners can receive doggy-style. As you’re on all fours, facing away from each other, put it gently in your backside and back into it at your own pace. That way, you fully control how much of it goes into you.

Alternatively, face each other and put the toy in-between you. That way, you don’t back into it; instead, you push forward. It’s more physically demanding, but you can maintain eye contact all the way through, which makes it romantic (allegedly).

Best of Both Worlds

To mix it up, you can combine the two. One partner can be on all fours while the other can be lying, facing toward their mate. The one on their back does all the work here, as once both ends are inside, they will use the middle of the dildo and push it back and forth with their hand. It takes a bit of practice making these positions comfortable and figuring out a pace that suits both parties, but the pay-off is worth it.

Tips and Tricks

When you get to grips with it, you can always explore. For example, why restrict yourself to a single toy? That is especially applicable for couples. Since only one hand is used, you have three of them free. You can use a stimulator like a magic wand for your penis or clitoris, as well as some kinkier stuff for other parts of your body (if you’re into it, of course). A strapless dildo is great predominantly for lesbians, as you can peg your partner with a dildo inside you. However, that does require some physical effort, so your vaginal muscles should go through some workout. Kegel exercises can get you there.

And if you’re a lady expecting to have more single nights than those with visitors, you can buy a firm dildo that’s specifically made for single-person use. Both ends are facing up — one is for your vagina, while the other is an anal probe. There’s a suction cup at the bottom, so you don’t have to think about its positioning, and you can have a DP ride without anyone saying how their mother cooks best.

After you’re done, don’t forget to clean the dildo thoroughly in order to avoid infections and bad smell. And we’ve said it before, we’ll say it again — use lube; it’s your friend, and there can never be too much of it.

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