Best Sex Positions With Anal Toys

Anal play is an avenue of sexual exploration that's gaining steam. You're not alone if you're curious about how anal toys can improve your intimate moments. In fact, more and more people are discovering the unique pleasures these toys can bring to the bedroom.

But before you jump right in, you have to know that venturing into new sexual territories with your partner requires an open dialogue. So be honest about your desires and limits, and make sure you're both on the same page. With the right anal toy and proper usage, you could unlock sensations you and your partner never felt before. 

Having Sex With Anal Toys (How and Why)

Anal toys aren't just a fad. These toys are designed to target zones packed with nerve endings, like the prostate for individuals with one, and the rich nerve network around the anal area. When you stimulate these spots, you're in for a whole new level of sensation!

Now, the thrill isn't just physical either. For many, there's a psychological zing in stepping outside the norm. Engaging in something that feels a bit naughty or daring can be a huge turn-on. 

If you're getting started, you'll want to pick the right toy—something that speaks to your level of experience and comfort. Size matters here, and so does shape. Choose wisely to keep things enjoyable.

Doggy Style

Doggy style is a classic because it's reliable. A versatile position that gets even better with the addition of anal toys. If you're looking to hit the G-spot or prostate, this position offers deep penetration and the perfect angle to make each moment feel so incredible!

If you want to try this for the first time, consider propping a pillow under your hips. It's not only for comfort but it helps with alignment. One of the best things about doggy style is the control it gives you. You can dictate the depth and speed of penetration, making it easier to adjust to the added sensation the anal toy brings. It's like being the conductor of your own orchestra of pleasure.

Cowgirl

When it comes to mixing things up with anal toys, the cowgirl position puts the receiving partner in the driver's seat. You get to call the shots on how deep you go and the rhythm you want to set. This position is all about empowering you to find your own groove and, let's face it, that can be pretty awesome.

Now, try leaning back a bit—yes, just like that. Feel different? It should. Changing the angle can hit all sorts of pleasure points you didn't even know you had. And if leaning back is good, leaning forward might just blow your mind. 

Your partner isn't just there for the ride; they're part of the team. Synchronize your movements with theirs for a duo performance that could deserve a standing ovation. Communicate, find a rhythm that works for both of you, and then ride that wave together. 

Missionary

The missionary position is also a classic! A few tweaks can even transform it into an exciting playground for your anal toys. Start by grabbing a couple of pillows or props to elevate your hips. Try the "butterfly position" where you prop your legs up higher, perhaps resting them on your partner's shoulders. This variation allows for that oh-so-satisfying deeper penetration.

One of the sweetest parts of missionary is the face-to-face contact. Lock eyes with your partner, and you'll find intimacy that amplifies every sensation. By adding an anal toy into the mix while in missionary will feel like a breeze for your partner. Trust us! Whether it's a slender plug or a vibe that hits just the right spot, you can easily manage insertion and control without missing a beat.

And while you're enjoying the depth and connection, don't shy away from a little multitasking. Incorporate clitoral or penile stimulation to stoke the fires even more.

Spooning

Spooning is the go-to position for many couples looking for comfort and closeness, and it's a fantastic starting point if you're new to the world of anal toys. In this position, the 'big spoon' — that's you, if you're the one doing the penetrating — have the perfect reach. Your arm can effortlessly wrap around your partner, allowing you to stimulate their front genitals with your hand. At the same time, you can gently introduce an anal toy from behind. It's like having the best of both worlds at your fingertips, literally.

So, snuggle up, take it slow, and let the warmth of this intimate embrace guide you through a new realm of shared pleasure.

Best Toys to Use During Sex

Think small butt plugs or anal beads if you're new to this adventure. These are fantastic because they're not intimidating, and you can find them in sizes that won't make your eyes water just from looking at them.

Adding a vibrating anal toy to the mix can level up the experience.  The beauty of these toys is that they offer additional stimulation, which can lead to more intense orgasms. So, don't shy away from toys that come with a power button.

Prostate massagers are designed to hit just the right spot, offering a unique kind of pleasure that's definitely worth exploring. Just be sure to go with a trusted design that's made for safe, enjoyable prostate stimulation.

Always pick toys with a flared base for safety purposes. A flared base ensures your toy stays where you want it and makes retrieval a no-sweat situation. And let's not forget about the material. Silicone is soft, flexible, and always reliable. Lots of sex toys are made from silicone too. Glass, on the other hand, is the sleek, smooth operator, perfect for those who like a bit of firmness. And metal can bring temperature play into the game. Each material offers a different sensation, so don't hesitate to experiment to find out what sends you to cloud nine.

Anal Play Exploration: Tips and Techniques

A technique you'll want to get friendly with is 'tipping'. Gently insert the tip of the toy, then pull it out slightly, and repeat. Think of it like dipping your toes into the water before diving in—it reduces discomfort and makes for a smoother ride.

Ready to mix it up? Small circular motions or gentle thrusting can unlock new levels of pleasure. These movements can stimulate in ways that straight-up-and-down just can't match.

The mind plays a huge role in anal play, where building trust with your partner can seriously amp up the experience. It's about embracing vulnerability and openness, which can add an intense layer of intimacy. This openness extends to communication, which is crucial. Talking openly with your partner about what feels good, what doesn't, and those "oh, please do that again" moments, essentially gives them the cheat code to your pleasure.

 

Incorporating Anal Play into Foreplay and Build-up

Foreplay is the perfect time to introduce anal play, layering in a new level of arousal and expectation. Think of it as setting the stage for a show-stopping performance where every act is more thrilling than the last. This approach enriches the foreplay, making the build-up to the main event even more electrifying.

Start with a light touch. External stimulation like rimming or a soft, circling massage around the anus can send shivers down your spine before you even think about penetration. This sort of play teases the senses, coaxing your body into a state of eager anticipation.

Stay tuned in to your body or your partner's signals—whichever is on the receiving end of the play. Being present and responsive ensures that everyone stays comfortable, connected, and cruising towards an unforgettable climax.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Simone Brooks

A Southern-based author brings clarity to the intimate world of sex toys, focusing on user-friendly guides and reviews for dildos and nipple toys. Drawing from her past as an educator, she crafts content that enlightens and equips her readers, making the exploration of pleasure accessible to all. Beyond writing, she finds solace in nurturing her garden and roaming the countryside with her favorite dogs, where she gathers inspiration for her work.