Gay Sex Toys — Guide to Sheer Pleasure

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Using sexual aids is not a taboo anymore. At some point, you will be bored with handjobs or fingering, and you will strive for something that can give you more exquisite sensations. Yet, gay sex toys proved to be useful when it comes to intercourse with a partner, especially for warming up. Each year, innovative toys appear, but we will now present you with some of the best toys out there.

Prostate Massagers

For ages, a lot of men found their prostate G-spot inaccessible. They could either massage the highly sensitive area of perineum or put a lot of effort into reaching the prostate inside through the rectum. Ordinary gay male sex toys, like anal dildos and plugs, just weren’t up to the task. For that reason, specifically designed prostate massagers were invented.

These massagers typically come with a curved head that reaches the prostate gland. They have a flared end, which is essential because it releases you from worries that the toy will get lost inside. Newer generations of these anal toys are, in fact, electronic devices. They produce vibrations and movements to make the stimulation a mind-blowing experience.

However, prior to inserting a prostate massager, you have to use some lubricant. Do not thrust it in immediately since you can seriously damage the rectal area. Take it slow and work your way up to the spot. Many couples prefer this toy as a foreplay activity. Besides, lots of men say that prostate massage leads to intense ejaculation without a single penis stroke. So freeing your buddy from strokes and enjoying only anal penetration while still reaching an orgasm sound like a fantastic experience!

Anal Dildos

Anal dildos typically resemble penises. They come in various shapes, colors, and materials. You can even find gay dildos which look like some celebrities’ penises. So how is it possible? A famous person or a porn actor’s penis is molded into a toy using various techniques. That’s how a dildo with such a texture, size, and color comes to the market.

Gay men mainly use anal dildos for thrusting. That is the activity of inserting the dildo into the anus and taking it out. Basically, you move it in and out at varying speed and volume. Anal dildos should have an expanded base, which again reduces the possibility of the toy getting stuck. In addition, there are even double-sided dildos that you can use with your partner for some simultaneous anal play!

As with every anal toy, you need some lube and patience since dry and too harsh penetration might result in serious injuries. On the other hand, if you do it easily and passionately, you can fully enjoy dildos. Some of them come as vibrators as well! And if you are a lucky guy, you may even reach the sweet spot with them!

Butt Plugs

Different from dildos but not less popular are butt plugs, which are meant to stay in the butt for some time. They are often diamond-shaped and have a narrow top that expands gradually to the bottom flare base. There are different sizes — from that of a finger to that of a fist.

However, you shouldn’t push it hard into the rectum unless you like pain. You’d better warm up with the fingers and lube your hole before inserting your butt plug!

You can play with it in numerous ways. If you crave the feeling of fullness down there in your opening, then this toy will satisfy your needs. A bottom giving oral sex to the top or just preparing for some anal action can keep it inside and enjoy having the aforementioned feeling.

Some butt plugs even have extended parts designed as animal tails, such as the ones of a pony, dog, pig, etc. These are good for fetish games of animal fantasy roleplay, domination, and subordination.

Even some top gay men may wear butt plugs while having sex. When a top ejaculates, his butt muscles tense, which results in the butt plug reaching the prostate and causing a lot more intense orgasm.

Anal Training Kits

If you are a beginner or maybe an experienced bottom who loves anal play, then anal training kits will amaze you! They help your anus loosen, usually when you want to prepare for anal penetration with your partner.

They usually consist of a minimum of three butt plugs, each bigger than the next. High-quality kits include anal douches as well so that you needn’t worry if your butt is clean enough. These kits really come in handy for anal sex amateurs in that they can train their tiny and narrow anal area with different sizes to become pros really quickly.

Expanding Butt Plugs

Apart from ordinary anal plugs, which come in a fixed form and size, these expanding butt plugs are much different. We can recognize two main types. One expands like a flower with petals, whereas another has the same shape as a standard plug but is inflatable.

The main idea is that you insert them in their normal size and shape and, once they are inside, you expand them, turn on vibrations, and stimulate more spots at once. They can certainly find their way to the prostate, which makes for a superb feeling! Just be careful, and don’t go too far with these inflatable plugs.

Anal Beads

This intriguing product is one of the most loved and best gay sex toys. It consists of a chain of connected balls or spheres that can vary in size. Using them, you constantly engage the muscles in your anus, which causes the continuous opening and closing of it.

This chain of beads can be loose, or it can take the form of a semi-rigid shaft. It commonly ends with a ring where you can insert your finger to make sure the whole toy doesn’t end up somewhere in the colon. For an unsurpassable sensation, try taking them out the moment you ejaculate.

Cock Rings

There are various kinds of cock rings out there — the primary difference between them is the position where they are worn. Their purpose is to limit the flow of blood from the penis so that the erection lasts longer. That being said, we don’t recommend you apply a cock ring for longer than half an hour.

The most typical cock rings are:

  • rings worn on the bottom of the shaft
  • cock crowns worn around the glans
  • ball stretchers or testicle cuffs
  • triple cock rings

A triple cock ring is unique because it holds the erection of the shaft and also moves the testicles a bit further away from the body. When a man cums, his testicles go toward the body. However, a triple ring prevents them from doing so and causes a more intense sensation.

The most popular cock rings even utilize vibration technology. These can send vibrations to the penis and areas around it, such as balls and perineum. Bottoms might also find them pleasurable since some of them have vibrating extensions for the anus during sex. And even if you are a bottom playing alone, you can attach a vibrating cock ring to your dildo and enjoy yourself!

Cleaning Is Caring

We shall remind you that hygiene is essential when you play with gay sex toys. When you finish playing, clean your toy thoroughly. Depending on the material, the process of cleaning may differ. Follow the instructions from your toy box or ask for advice in the sex shop. After all, “sharing is caring” doesn’t apply to sex toys.


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