Using a Vibrator During Sex

Most of the time when you think of a vibrator, you think of one person, alone, enjoying their own body. It doesn’t have to be this way though! Vibrators can be a great addition to your sexual escapades with a partner, or can take a lot of the pressure off if there are some problems in the bedroom.

There are a huge range of vibrators out there. While all can be used in any sexual encounter, some will be better suited to the experience than others.

Vibrating Cock Rings

If one of the partners is lucky enough to have a penis, then a vibrating cock ring can be the best way to go. These are usually small bullet vibrators, attached to a flexible ring which goes around the penis. Not only does the ring put some extra pressure on the penis, usually giving stronger erections, but having the vibrator attached means that both partners can feel the buzz without having to worry about holding or positioning the vibrator. With a cock ring, traditional missionary sex is great, as the vibrator tends to be in contact with the clitoris with each thrust. The man also gets a great vibrating feeling on his penis throughout the experience.

Bullet Vibrators

For women who have trouble reaching orgasm through traditional sex, or men who have problems with premature ejaculation, picking up a bullet vibrator can be a great investment. Due to the small size, a bullet is very easy to position. For most women, using one during penetration will speed up the process of reaching orgasm massively. For a man who suffers from premature ejaculation, this can take a lot of the pressure off, allowing him to simply enjoy sex while knowing that his partner will still be enjoying herself. Similarly, if a woman struggles with orgasm, adding a bullet vibrator to the mix means that a man won’t have to hold on for hours to bring his woman to climax. Even without any sexual problems, the small size of a bullet vibrator means you can experiment with all kinds of positions and stimulate different areas of the body during sex for some truly unique sensations.

Other Vibrators

Most other types of vibrator will be a little larger, especially if you’re using a rabbit or magic wand styled vibrator. Positioning these can be a little trickier during sex, but there’s no reason not to try it! As long as you and your partner are willing to put in a little work, you can experiment with all kinds of things and see just what your vibrator is capable of bringing to the bedroom.

I could list off plenty of anecdotal examples of using vibrators during sex. Things such as building up the foreplay before you even get naked, holding it against your cheek while giving your partner oral, or even both wearing a remote controlled one and teasing each other until you’re begging for it are all great fun. Ultimately though, it’s down to your own preferences and which feelings you enjoy.

It’s worth the effort though. Almost everyone who’s tried using a vibrator during sex tells you that they orgasmed quicker, stronger, or easier. It’s not something you’ll want to do every single time, but taking the extra time to get to know your partner with some extra toys can really make the squirm, and the sight of them enjoying it can be an incredible turn on. So, grab those vibrators and get up to the bedroom! Your partner won’t know what hit them.