Using a Harness With a Strapless Dildo?

One of the most exciting sex toys you can find is a strapless dildo. Since it provides stimulation to the wearer as well as the recipient, it became very popular among lesbian couples.

However, strap-ons are tricky to use at the beginning. That is why so many people end up getting a harness to make things a bit easier. Let’s check what harnesses can work well with the infamous strap-ons!

What’s the Point of Using a Strapless Dildo Harness?

Some may argue that adding a harness to a strapless dildo defeats the purpose of the toy. The whole idea behind it is that it is strapless, right?

Well, the idea sure is great, and the experience can be mind-blowing. But strap-ons are not at all the easiest sex toys to use. It all sounds simple, though. The shorter end of the bulb goes into the vagina of the wearer; the longer end sticks out like a penis, and she uses it to penetrate the body of her partner.

However, the wearer must hold the bulb with her pelvic floor muscles, which may be quite difficult. Two things can cause a problem. First, the pelvic floor muscles are not the strongest in the body. They contract during orgasm, and that is pretty much their only function. In other words, they are not designed to hold and maneuver objects. Of course, you can do Kegel exercises to improve their strength, but it’s a daily routine, and you will be able to feel the difference only after a month. So, if you are into strap-ons, you will have to practice.

Second thing, when things start to get wet down there, holding a strap-on can become quite a challenge. When that happens, harnesses really come in handy. They can make sex play easier, at least until you master the technique.

Nonetheless, it is crucial to choose the right type of harness to enjoy the experience fully.

The World of Dildo Harnesses

Once you start exploring, you’ll realize that there are a lot of different harnesses on the market. The complicated bit is that finding the one that suits you depends on your preferences.

Unfortunately — or luckily — it means that you will have to try a couple before you find the right one. Though the principle is the same, every harness makes you feel slightly different. And the subtleties are everything in the bedroom.

Whether you opt for a corset harness or a jockstrap harness should not depend solely on how appealing they look. Not every type will be helpful when using a strap-on. We’ll go through the ones that may be useful for strapless dildos.

Jockstrap Harness

It is sometimes referred to as the three-strap harness. It’s your classic jockstrap that has a hole on its front part. The hole or the O-ring is where the shaft of the strap-on comes through. Visually, it would suit butch wearers. In the case of lesbian couples, it implies a bit of roleplay.

Since the buttocks are exposed, this type of harness offers full flexibility and freedom of movement. Still, the dildo gets enough support to remain steady during play.

Jockstrap harnesses are comfy and cool, and they come in various materials and colors. However, the angle of the shaft may not fit the position of the O-ring. What’s good is that there are adjustable options. Our advice is to get a leather one. They usually have adjustable straps.

G-String Harness

This beauty resembles a G-string or a thong. On the plus side, it can look feminine and elegant. Thus, it contrasts the somewhat harsh nature of the dildo, providing additional stimulation.

But only visually, because G-string harnesses are not a great match for strap-ons. They have two straps and provide weak support for the dildo. Since they are usually not adjustable, fitting the shaft with the O-ring may be extremely tricky. Additionally, the straps are very thin, so the hole on the front may be too small for the dildo. That is if you chose a larger model.

Also, when the action gets a bit more frisky, the dildo will move. However, if you stick to simple positions, G-string harness may do it. Especially if you appreciate the way it looks.

Corset Harness

If you are a bit into kink, corset harnesses will instantly catch your eye. The principle is the same as with jockstraps. Only the appeal is different.

Again, the corset harness will have an O-ring for the shaft. Unlike G-strings, they provide tighter support for the dildo, so maneuvering will be easier. Also, if the wearer likes to look feminine while dominating, this is an excellent choice.

The backside of this product is like the back of a corset. It not only looks exciting, but it can be adjusted to make the wearer more comfortable and the strap-on more stable. Truthfully, anything resembling a corset makes the heart beat faster, so you can’t go wrong with this one.

Underwear Harness

We also call it a lingerie harness depending on the style. It can look like regular underwear, or it can be more stylish with lace, etc. Anything from boxers and briefs to thongs is available.

These harnesses also come with a hole in the front and should not be confused with panties with built-in dildos. If you opt for this type, you should be aware that it is not adjustable, so it may be tricky to fit the shaft through the O-ring. Also, the ones resembling male briefs provide the best support for the dildo.

If wearing male underwear is not your thing, you may want to choose something else. Though, it may be arousing and help you get into character. Underwear harnesses can also be alluring to those who like their play to feel like a quickie.

Which Harness Should You Choose?

As we said, it’s not an easy choice. You may like a harness, but not feel comfortable while wearing it.

We would recommend starting with a jockstrap, or a corset, depending on your style. Both provide great support for the dildo, so you won’t have difficulties controlling it. Corsets and jockstrap harnesses also come in various materials, and you will find something that you’ll like.

When you get the hang of it, you can try the G-string. You will have less support for the strap-on, but at that point, you’ll probably get much better at it.

The aim is to get rid of a harness completely and experience the skin-to-skin feeling. However, many users say that they find the play much more exciting when they use a harness.

The best course of action is to experiment and explore. It is the only way to find out what works for you. Dildos and harnesses are the toys for intimate pleasure, so you will be able to decide only after trying them out.

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