How to Use a Bullet Vibrator

Congratulations! You’ve decided to start or expand your sex toy collection. You are a proud owner of a bullet vibrator, and now, you’re wondering how to use a vibrator. Don’t worry; these sex toys are easy and intuitive to use. It’s no wonder that they are the most popular vibrators for women! The two of you are going to have a fantastic time.

Clitoral Stimulation

Like with any sex toy, you should get acquainted with bullet vibrators before you start using them. After all, your little friend is going to give you so much pleasure, so it’s normal you get to know it first. Give it a test by rubbing it over your skin and intimate areas and get the feeling of the material it’s made of. After all, stainless steel feels differently than silicone, so you first have to try them both! After that, discover all the levels of vibrations and what feels pleasurable, and you’re ready.

Once you are comfortable with your joy toy, you can start exploring your body. Relax and take your time. When you’re playing with your vibrator for the first time, don’t stress and worry about climaxing. Your primary goal should be to enjoy yourself and discover new sensations, and orgasm will eventually come.

Due to their size, shape, and vibration patterns, the primary forte of these small vibrators is clitoral stimulation. In this respect, they are better than wand vibrators. The basic principle is simple — you apply the toy to your clitoris and let the bullet vibe do the job. However, there are several things to consider first, especially if you’re a newcomer.

Foreplay

It’s wise to remember that you don’t need to have a straight-to-the-point approach. We all have different body experiences, so, naturally, some vaginas have more sensitive clitorises. That’s why you can start your masturbation session over your underwear, sheets, or some kind of light cloth. The fabric will soften the vibrations, at least until you are ready for the next step.

And once you are set for more direct action, you can’t go wrong if you lube up your clitoral vibrator. You don’t have to wait to get wet by yourself. Namely, lube makes the rubbing sensation more pleasurable by eliminating friction.

Straight to the Point

When playing with your clit, utilize all the sides of your clit vibrator. You can stimulate your zone merely by using the tip of the toy. There’s also the option of pressing the full vertical side by simply applying pressure or rubbing it gently. Try several techniques until you find the one that sparks joy.

Don’t let your free hand lie around — it can also help. After all, there’s so much it can do. Firstly, you can pleasure other parts of your body during the session. Your free hand can lift the clitoral hood and generally play with other parts of your vagina, for example. Also, depending on your bullet model, the other hand could adjust vibration patterns with a wireless remote control.

G-spot Stimulation

There are several things to consider when playing with this erogenous zone. Primarily, it’s not a magic button you push to instantly orgasm. It is more like an area close to the entrance of your vaginal wall. The game isn’t discovering a single pleasurable spot, but discovering everything your body can make you feel.

Straight Are Great, But Curvy Is Better

Bullet vibrators are practical for stimulating your G-spot, which is usually from 5–8 cm deep inside your vaginal canal. Your sex toy is far from XXXL size, but it can still reach the destination. Though you can always do the job with your fingers, the advantage of bullet vibrators is that they are less strenuous to use and are easier to manipulate.

Your standard bullet vibrator can do the trick, but there are models, like the G-spot vibrator by Je Joue, that are specifically designed for this function. These vibrators are curved at the top, making it easier for them to reach the sweet spot.

Get Into the Mood

Before you go for the gold, get yourself in the mood for some sexy time. Experts have been debating about the nature of the G zone, but according to some, it’s a sponge-like tissue surrounding your urethra. This spongy region engorges when you are aroused, and thus, it becomes easier to find. Simply put, you should fantasize about that special someone or play your favorite porn to prepare yourself.

Find the position you are comfortable in, and you can begin. The first step is to play with your outer area. Perhaps go for some clitoral stimulation or tease your labia and vaginal entrance before you slide in. Of course, you should also lube up your toy just in case.

Hitting the Sweet Spot

Once inside, move your vibrator across your upper vaginal wall in the direction of your navel. Experiment with hand movements until you get to the zone that feels pleasurable. Keep in mind that some women get a “peeing” sensation. When or if you find it, massage it with the tip of your toy, and don’t be afraid to apply pressure. See what feels best — constant contact, circular movement, or poking.

When you feel it’s working for you, try turning on the vibrations. Start with a less energetic program and work your way up to stronger frequencies. Depending on the model, you can use your other hand to change vibrational speeds. If not, play with your clit or the rest of the body.

Take your time and listen to your desires. You might not get a mind-blowing orgasm on your first try, but if you get some fun time out of it, it’s an excellent start.

Other Body Parts

Bullet vibrators are fantastic for sending waves of pleasure down your erogenous zones, and, luckily for you, that doesn’t stop with your clitoris and vagina. Your body is a map of hidden sexual areas that you can uncover. They are perfect for the first act of your masturbation session, or they can be a fantastic addition to your clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

Hitting It Close to Home

The area surrounding your vagina is filled with pleasurable zones that feel pleasurable under your sex toy. Rarely talked about mons pubis is a hidden gem. Generally speaking, that’s the area right above your vagina where your pubic hair grows. Turn on the vibrations (even the stronger programs) and press your vibrator onto it.

Your outer clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg. The entire organ goes as a two-sided fork deep in your belly. By pressing your vibrator onto the mons pubis, the undulations will reach your inner clitoris and cause arousal.

No Man’s Land and Anal Play

Another soft spot close to home is your perineum. That’s the zone between your vagina and your anus. This area is somewhat tender, so make sure to try less vigorous vibrating programs first. You can press your sex toy gently onto it, and then slowly glide across it. And since you’re in the neighborhood, why not dabble in some anal play?!

However, don’t use your bullet vibrator for anal penetration unless it’s specifically designed for anal play. Anal sex toys have a special flare-based ending, and standard bullet vibrators usually don’t have this. Although, you can still make your toy work for you. Just press it mildly or massage it while the vibrations do wonders.

Don’t Skip the Leg Work

Whether your legs are long or stout, they may hold several fun zones to enjoy. Press your bullet vibrator in full length against your inner thigh and slide it across it. Caress the inner side of your knee with the vibrating toy, and you might find a hidden sweet spot. Also, don’t neglect the bottom of your feet, as they are filled with nerve endings. If you don’t discover an erogenous zone there, you can at least get a pleasurable massage.

Breasts

Of course, let’s not forget their majesty, the breasts. Slide the tip of your vibrator across the outer area of your pair with a milder program first. Discover which vibration strength suits you. And when you feel sufficiently aroused, try using the vibrator onto your nipples. Also, you can play with your neck in this fashion as a sure way to get yourself frisky.

Using Bullets During Sex

Finesse is the reason this sex toy is fantastic for masturbation. However, the same characteristic makes it less favorable as a sex toy for couples. It can easily get misplaced, and it’s not suited for deeper penetration. But don’t disregard this little one just yet, as vibrator sex can spice things up in the bedroom.

Generally speaking, you can apply all the above-mentioned tips on your unoccupied erogenous zones. For example, while having vaginal sex, you can massage your breasts, stimulate your clitoris, or play with your butt. Better yet, let your partner do it, and you let yourself go.

The most common use for a bullet vibrator during sex is for stimulation of the clitoris, but not every position makes it easy to reach. In the end, whether and how you’ll be using a bullet vibrator comes down to the choice of your sex position. Here are some to take into consideration.

When it comes to face-to-face positions, the trick is to avoid close contact so you can have enough room to maneuver with your toy. That means extra-close poses, like missionary, are impractical.

Upwards Missionary

If you’re in bed, you can lie down, possibly with your pelvis elevated with a pillow. Your partner’s upper body should be vertical, and then, you have ample room to press your bullet vibrator onto your clitoris, or you can play with your breasts. Your partner could also stimulate your clit if they’re in the mood.

For this position, try other pieces of furniture in your home. You can be semi-lying on an armchair with your legs spread and your partner kneeling. Or what about your table? It’s ideal for this situation — you can lie on it, and your partner can stand in front of you.

Cowgirl

Another suitable face-to-face position is cowgirl. The trick is not to lean closer to your partner but that your upper body should be straight or inclining slightly backward. That way, your clit is out in the open for stimulation. But one thing to keep in mind is that if you are the one doing sex movements, you should be holding the vibrator.

Doggy Style

The poses that have you facing back from your partner might be more suitable for using your vibrating sex toy. Doggy style and its variations give you several options. While having vaginal sex, you can press your bullet vibrator onto your clit, or, if you’re into it, your partner could stimulate your anus. In case of anal sex, you could also use the toy on your clit or shoot for the G-spot.

Reverse Cowgirl

Spooning and reverse cowgirl on a chair have similar possibilities. You can stimulate your clit yourself, but so can your partner. These positions make your clitoris accessible to your partner.

Reverse cowgirl in bed is also an interesting scenario. Your partner can play with your sphincter if you are leaning toward his feet. And when your upper body is upwards, you can stimulate your clitoris or even gently slide the bullet vibrator across his balls or perineum.

With these couple of tips, hopefully, you are ready to have some fun. It doesn’t matter if your bullet vibrator is purple, rose gold, or blue, if it’s waterproof and rechargeable, you now have an orgasmically powerful sex toy! So use it wisely.

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