Masturbating With Anal Sex Toys

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We all fall into habits when it comes to our sex lives. Whether it's reusing the same sex positions each night with our partners, or quickly masturbating in the most effective way, we tend to stick to things that we know work.

If you’re willing to put aside your habits though, you can find a whole new world of pleasure by exploring some anal masturbation.

Basic Anal Masturbation

We all have the ability to enjoy anal masturbation, and we don’t need any special toys or equipment to do it! The tools are attached to our own bodies: our hands and our mouths!

Anal fingering is probably the most common and simple form of anal masturbation. Not only is it very simple and quick to do, but you can use it as a nice warm up before you move onto some of the anal sex toys on offer.

Just a single finger can give you plenty of pleasure, or if you feel a little more adventurous you can use as many fingers as you find comfortable.

The flexibility of your fingers makes them great for exploring your butt and identifying which areas you enjoy stimulating the most. Using in and out motions can give you an idea of what anal sex might feel like, or you can try stroking in circles, applying pressure, pushing and pulling, literally anything you can think of.

While fingers can be easily used for self-stimulation, you might find it a bit more difficult to use your mouth on your own anus.

You might be a contortionist, in which case go right ahead, but most of us mere mortals will need a partner.

Orally stimulating the anus follows the same basic principle as vaginal or penile stimulation. Simply explore the area and see what your partner enjoys.

I know the idea of licking someone’s butt might not sound that appealing, but as long as they are clean and hygienic it can actually be quite intimate and enjoyable.

Sex Toys For Anal Masturbation

While we can get by perfectly well with our own hands and mouths, you still aren’t really spicing anything up when compared to normal masturbation.

To really take things to the next level, you should look into one of the many anal sex toys available.

Even though anal play is still viewed with a level of taboo, the range of toys available is quite impressive and include:

    • Butt plugs: Almost the gold standard of anal toys, butt plugs can be great for beginners and experts alike. These aren’t really ideal for in and out play, but simply holding them in can feel great. You can accompany your butt plugs with some penile or vaginal masturbation to really get yourself going.
    • Anal Beads: Similar to butt plugs in design, but with the opposite purpose in mind. The best use of anal beads is in the insertion and removal. Inside the anus are two rings of muscles called sphincters. These open up to let the beads in, and then pop back shut between each bead.
    • Anal Vibrators: Very similar to butt plugs in design or use, but an anal vibrator gives you the joy of the stimulation without having to do any of the hard work yourself! Perfect if you want a nice easy masturbation session.
    • Prostate massagers: These are almost identical to butt plugs, except for a slight curve along the body. The curve lets it perfectly hit the sensitive male prostate gland. Prostate orgasms can be unlike anything else a man might experience, so these are a favourite for solo masturbation sessions.
    • Dildos and Strapons: While these are most often used for full sex, you can still use them for masturbation. It’s as simple as using them just like you would with a partner, and if your toy is well designed, shouldn’t feel much different.

Regardless of which one of these you choose, how you use them will be mostly the same. There’s one important factor you’re always going to need to consider…

Lubrication For Anal Masturbation

Whenever there’s a mention of any kind of anal play, it wouldn’t be complete without some mention of lubrication.

As the anus doesn’t produce any of its own lubrication, we’re always going to need to use some if we don’t want our anal play to end in tears.

For most kinds of anal play, oil-based lubricants tend to be the best to use. These stay slippery for a very long period of time and are thick enough to lubricate almost any kind of toys.

The only issue is that they don’t react well with condoms so if you’re planning to cover your toys, you’ll need to find a different lubricant.

You need to use plenty of lubricant both on your toys, as well as inside your anus.

Often the lube we put on our toys will be scraped off by the sphincter are we insert them, so having some inside before you start is a big help.

If you struggle getting it in, there are lube syringes you can buy which make the whole process much easier.

If you think you have enough, you probably don’t, so really cover yourself in it. Your skin and muscles will thank you later.

Dangers Of Anal Masturbation

Many of us will often have reservations about anal play and worry about the potential damage it can cause to our butts.

Most of the time simply using plenty of lubricant and taking your time will mitigate all of these dangers.

If you do go a little too fast and damage your skin, then you should wait until it has fully healed before you try again.

Any cuts or tears in the skin are an easy way for bacteria to get into your body, which could lead to some nasty infections. Another consideration you need to make when having regular anal play is keeping your toys as clean as possible.

The rectum is full of many kinds of bacteria which aren’t harmful when kept there. Introducing these bacteria to any other part of the body can quickly lead to nasty side effects though, so always clean your toys after using them in your butt.

Where possible, you should try and keep specific sex toys just for anal, and never use something in your vagina after it’s been in your butt.

Due to the thin and sensitive nature of the anal lining, it’s also much easier to contract STIs and STDs anally than any other way.

You should make sure that your toys are completely clean before letting someone else use them, or for extra protection, cover them with a condom.

In an ideal world, you want to have different toys for different people.

Anal masturbation can be a great introduction to the joys of anal sex.

Exploring your own body during masturbation can help you identify which parts of anal stimulation you enjoy and see how far you’re willing to push yourself without worrying about having another person involved.

Even the experienced of you can gain plenty of enjoyment from anal play, and there’s always more for you to try out. So, get out there and try some of our anal sex toys today!


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